What makes you different?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

How short is too short for a skirt?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

What makes cars from companies like Dacia or BYD appealing compared to Tesla, especially in Europe?

What makes you YOU.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Is visiting holy shrines (dargahs) or graves haraam in Islam?

So, what actually makes us all different?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Can you make it?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Why has Biden pulled ahead in battleground states and is now projected to win the 2024 presidency?

Agree?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

What are the consequences of being addicted to something? Is it considered wrong to have an addiction?

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Why are men so attracted to big breasts?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

What if he’d come outside?

What has been your best sexual experience?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

How does the narcissist react when he realizes you no longer care?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

What is the most heartbreaking thing your child has told you?

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Do Republicans realize that the power of the people is invested in 'representative government'? If so, why did they elect a pathological liar?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

So, keep on experimenting.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.